AN OBSERVATION TO CARRY WITH YOU
THE WAY OF A CHILDNO. 05

Disappointment belongs here too.

Not every difficult experience needs to be softened.

THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICE

When your child is disappointed, notice whether you can allow the feeling without adding another struggle.

Nothing to complete. Just something to carry.
A LITTLE FURTHER

A child loses a game. They cry, withdraw or become frustrated.

You may want to explain sportsmanship. You may want to distract them. You may worry about what other people think.

But losing matters to a child who cares. Disappointment is part of that experience.

Stay close if they need you. Hold a boundary if someone is being hurt. Allow the feeling to have its moment.

Sometimes the experience itself is the teacher.

There is nothing else you need to do with this.
One observation. A whole week to notice.