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SIX OBSERVATIONS TO EXPLORE
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THE WAY OF A CHILD / 01
Your child is not your thoughts about your child.
The difference between what your child does and the story your mind tells about it.
THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICEThe next time you think your child is being difficult or stubborn, notice the label. What did you actually see?
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THE WAY OF A CHILD / 02A feeling is not a problem.
What happens when we stop rushing to make a feeling disappear?
THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICEWhen your child feels something strongly, notice your first urge to make the feeling go away.
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THE WAY OF A CHILD / 03Are you listening, or preparing to respond?
A moment to notice the mind at work while someone speaks.
THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICEWhile your child speaks, notice whether you are listening or already preparing an answer.
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THE WAY OF A CHILD / 04The urge to correct.
When does your child need guidance, and when do you simply prefer your own way?
THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICEWhen you feel the urge to correct, notice whether your child needs help or you simply want it done your way.
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THE WAY OF A CHILD / 05Disappointment belongs here too.
Not every difficult experience needs to be softened.
THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICEWhen your child is disappointed, notice whether you can allow the feeling without adding another struggle.
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THE WAY OF A CHILD / 06When nothing needs adding.
Sometimes one explanation is enough.
THIS WEEK, JUST NOTICEAfter you've explained something to your child, notice the urge to say it once more. Do they need it?
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